Welcome to my site! I write from the perspective of being a 50 something resilient woman who is now single and trying to live life positively and as well as I can.  In this blog I focus on achieving my Book-It list of places to go and the different experience of being an older single woman now without a professional identity as I am retired ! The blog will feature accounts about my often hilarious dating encounters, how I have styled my home and coping with the challenges that life throws at you . A life lived is the only life we have so it’s important to make the most of it.